COOL FACEBOOK JUST SENT ME THE PICTURES SOMEONE POSTED OF THEIR HEALING SELF INJURY SCARS I DID NOT NEED THAT TONIGHT
about the therapist thing -- those really don't sound like acceptable therapists at ALL because therapists aren't supposed to judge their patient for any reason at all, otherwise they'd be laughing at the kids coming in that broke their legs and can't play some sport anymore and saying it was their own fault and they shouldn't like that sport anyway. I really hope you find a truly wonderful therapist soon, cause those just aren't doing their jobs right if they don't allow you to do some things.
Yeah it’s… Really frustrating because I want to be able to trust these people but they’re humans too and that means they have some serious faults. Idk I… I’m finally at a place that actually specializes in counseling LGBTQ people so they’re okay with the pronouns but… I dunno I’m really just not 100% about the guy I’m seeing currently. It’s too easy to just not tell him things and I feel like he spends a lot of time explaining rather than hearing what I’m saying. Maybe I’m just self centered, but I just… Struggle with therapists who spend a lot of time talking instead of figuring out how to make it okay for me to talk honestly. Hrnfhhj.
i hate it when u stop being friends w someone or u break up w someone cos uve got all this information about them like at the back of ur mind like their birthday or their favorite game or whatever, and even years later things will come up and you’ll think about that person and its like. oh. and it never really Stops
It took me SO LONG to find a therapist who I could deal with at all that I’m super reluctant to leave. The big thing is that I’m having trouble finding people who won’t throw a fucking fit if I want to use “they” pronouns for someone. And , considering the massive fucking damage this person has done to me over the past six months, it seems unlikely that I’ll be able to just avoid talking about them if I’m trying to get any better. And on some level I’m just tired of trying to find people who will do something that’s essentially for THEM and not for me, but like I don’t exist in a world where I can comfortably disregard someone’s pronoun preferences even if they’ve been hideous to me. And I have the option of using “he” pronouns too, but like. The fact that I’m not hetero is also an element to my life and? So I don’t want a therapist assuming that this was a straight relationship and therefore I’m straight and I feel like even if I said otherwise it wouldn’t penetrate.
God I hate that this person literally treats me like scum and I am still obligated to be decent. That’s not a pat on the back for me btw that’s just baseline humanity and I’m just angry because trying to accommodate this has been so fucking hard and it’s difficult not to blame that on the person I’m angriest at even though in the end it’s the fault of the therapist who can’t fucking deal.
don’t u hate it when u wake up and ur awake
What I need is a therapist who won’t let me get away with joking my way out of actually talking about my problems and I haven’t found one since Joe and that was two years ago or something now. It’s getting very hard.
I watched ep 3 of dmmd and wow that was some bad animation. I mean for chrissake, the walk cycles on Ren were egregious. And now, I’m watching some AoT, and I’ll say one thing about it— the animation is consistently pretty damn good.
imagine mink at the allmate store tho like 6’2” escaped convict c-cup bara pecs mink stoically browsing through shelves of robo animals smoking a pipe “sir you can’t smoke in here” but he doesnt say a word he just silently gives the employees a horrifyingly calm stare but then seeing tori and saying yes. i would like this enormous flamboyant pink cockatoo. perfect
and like someone had to give that bird an eyepatch and a cigar and fancy necklaces and put little braids in its feathers how do you braid a feather??? but that bird is a hecking robot if there was a problem with his eye it could be fixed no prob but no i am 700000% sure that eyepatch is an aesthetic choice made by a certain buff weirdo also that bird shouldnt have lungs. he is a robot. why is he smoking. mink why did you give your bird a cigar
and mink says shit like “i have him cause it’s convenient” i dont care if he found him on the street he still made the conscious decision to pick that bird up and say to himself yes. i want this pink thing to be my constant companion. i bet deep down that weird fucker loves his ridiculous bird. he accessorized that goddamn bird to match his outfit. he probably thinks he’s so fucking cool but plays it off like what no the camera went off accidentally tori and i aren’t models to save face in front of his hardcore prison gang
i have had the fabled Hetero Sex and believe you me it is little more than a confusing mess of kind of lying there and wondering what’s going on
Any suggestions for crunchyroll anime to watch? I have an account now and I am weeaboo trash.